Tip 30 Don’t leach on the greatness of others – find the greatness in you.
“The hope for humanity is that we may retrieve our shadow from our neighbour.” -Carl Jung, Swiss psychologist
By being around other people who are manifesting their greatness in the world, you may hope it will rub off on you. It may, but not because you have taken from them, but because you have found within yourself what you enjoy and admire in them.
Let something awaken in you.
A great teacher is one who creates more teachers, not more students. The greatest inspiration is the one who creates more inspirers. Let inspiring and great people help you awaken to what is in you, not only what is in them.
Meeting others is great – meeting yourself is the best. So all your resistance, ultimately, is to stop you showing up authentically in the world with what is great in you. There are some gifts you have, some talent you have, some beauty, some love to share with the world, and the whole point of resistance is to stop you showing up.
Your fear is that you’ll be a disappointment, your strength is not as good as you think it might be, you’ll be rejected. So rather than risk the pain, you hide out. But then it’s a lose/lose. You are diminished and the world is robbed of you, your talent and your gifts. Resistance allows you to keep your stories running rather than bust through them and show up and find out the actual reality.
Tip – so what is the cost of you hiding out and leading a diminished life? Reverse the pain and access your inspiration. Make the pain of hiding out greater than the possible pain of showing up.
Freedom project: Acknowledge that what you admire in others is also in you, maybe hidden or in embryo. Commit to finding the spirit in you, which is no more or no less than anyone else.
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“The hope for humanity is that we may retrieve our shadow from our neighbour.” -Carl Jung, Swiss psychologist
By being around other people who are manifesting their greatness in the world, you may hope it will rub off on you. It may, but not because you have taken from them, but because you have found within yourself what you enjoy and admire in them.
Let something awaken in you.
A great teacher is one who creates more teachers, not more students. The greatest inspiration is the one who creates more inspirers. Let inspiring and great people help you awaken to what is in you, not only what is in them.
Meeting others is great – meeting yourself is the best. So all your resistance, ultimately, is to stop you showing up authentically in the world with what is great in you. There are some gifts you have, some talent you have, some beauty, some love to share with the world, and the whole point of resistance is to stop you showing up.
Your fear is that you’ll be a disappointment, your strength is not as good as you think it might be, you’ll be rejected. So rather than risk the pain, you hide out. But then it’s a lose/lose. You are diminished and the world is robbed of you, your talent and your gifts. Resistance allows you to keep your stories running rather than bust through them and show up and find out the actual reality.
Tip – so what is the cost of you hiding out and leading a diminished life? Reverse the pain and access your inspiration. Make the pain of hiding out greater than the possible pain of showing up.
Freedom project: Acknowledge that what you admire in others is also in you, maybe hidden or in embryo. Commit to finding the spirit in you, which is no more or no less than anyone else.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Nick Williams travels the world sharing a life-affirming - and profoundly spiritual – vision of work and entrepreneurship. A sought after speaker, best-selling author and broadcaster, Nick is on a mission to help people move beyond their fears, play-bigger in their lives, and transform their passions into profitable businesses. He is the author of six books including the best selling The Work We Were Born To Do and most recently The Business You Were Born to Create. He lives in London and his web site is http://www.inspired-entrepreneur.com/, @nickwilliams1, http://www.facebook.com/entrepreneurclub
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Other Blog Posts by Nick: Give Up Your Worry That You'll Be Copied, Tip 28 Recognise the difference between an obstacle and an excuse, Tip 27 Don't Use Your Problems and Your Suffering to Define You, Tip 26 Recognize that Resistance Can Be Really Nasty, Tip 25Resist the Temptation to "Just Need to Know a Little Bit More" Before You Start, Tip 24 Art, Callings and Addiction, Tip 23 Over Planning is Procrastination in Disguise. Tip 22 Recognize and Relinquish Your Need to Be Special, Tip 21 When Can Your Great Intelligence Also Be A Great Impediment?, Tip 20 Recognize that You Might Be in Recovery, Tip 19 Step Out of Your Own Shadows onto Centre Stage, Tip18 Own Tip Your Fear so it Doesn't Own You, Tip 17 Become the Initiating Force in Your Life, Tip 16 Have Long Term Goals, Tip 15 Recognize the Real Purpose of Resistance, Tip 14 Become a Servant of the Great Mystery, Tip 13 Do Believe in Heaven, Tip 12 You Can't Take All the Credit for Your Brilliance, Tip 11 You Are the Custodian of Projects and Gifts, Tip 10 Who Did I Promise to Be in This Life? Tip 9 You Are Here to Do Something Beautiful, Tip 8 Are You Resisting Your Own Life Purpose? Tip 7 The Battle for Your Brilliance - Will Resistance Win? Tip 6 Were Your Talents and Abilities Used Today? Tip 5 Resistance Can Be Your North Star, Tip 4 Do You Know the Difference Between Resistance, Necessity and Intuition? Tip 3 Something Wonderful Came Before Your Resistance, Tip 2 Can You Recognize Your Own Resistance?, Tip 1 What Wants to Come into Existence through Me?, Your Precious Impulse, Does Your Soul Want a Renaissance Career, 5 Tips if You're Afraid of Losing Your Job, Why I Really Quit My Corporate Job, Comunity and the Inspired Entrepreneur, Beat Your Resistance and Honour Your Creative Impulses









